Here is a 30 day challenge with you and your deity. For atheist friends you can replace deity with yourself.
Create a secret language with your deity and write a dedication as your introduction in your new language.
Use a song to connect and write down images, feelings, ect you saw/felt.
Write a poem about their correspondences.
Write a devotional hymn of praise.
Have a cup of tea (or tea party) and write down the conversation.
Create affirmations with your deity so that you know you’re loved.
Shadow work: Focus on your shadow self and write down what your deity wants you to work on.
Write a hymn of gratitude.
Use a card spread to connect with your deity and write down the interpretation.
Bake with you deity and write down the recipe and why They chose it.
Write a chant or two that you can use to magically connect with said deity.
Write a haiku or a few of the simple mundane aspects of your relationship.
Create a dance or stretch with a deity and write down the steps as well as how you feel connected to your deity while performing.
Create a playlist then listen to it while writing about your favorite things about your deity.
Write about why your favorite myth about your deity is your favorite.
Are there any pop culture references to your deity? If so write about why you like/dislike their portrayal.
Are there historical characters that interacted with your deity? How do you feel about them?
Who is your deity to you? Matron? Patron? Grandfather like? Write about how you met your deity and your first impressions.
Middle ground. Write about the first time you felt comfortable with your deity.
How is your relationship now and what you hope for the future?
Write a poem about how They recently made you feel.
Give three examples of Them being benevolent.
Give three examples of when They had to give you a wake up call.
Write an informative paragraph about your deity as if you were writing to a completely unknowing novice.
Create a spell together that only works if both of you do it together.
Allow your deity to make a protection contract with you.
Special bonds. Write a bonding devotional where you dedicate yourself to Them (as a devotee, priestess, fan, ect ).
Create a picture that represents Them with devotional poetry.
Go on a walk and talk with your deity. Record the conversation.
Ask for wisdom and guidance and what They expect from you. Write down their answer.